David and Pierre's Gay Wedding at Villa La Tosca, Arcachon Bay

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David and Pierre embracing and gazing upwards in the Villa La Tosca garden

I want to talk about the gay weddings, between two men and between two women, that I have had the chance to photograph, because I believe that love has no gender.

As a wedding photographer, I am deeply moved by love in all its forms, and even more so when it comes to emotions as pure and sincere as those between two people in love like David and Pierre.

Gay Wedding Photographer

A gay wedding photographer in Bordeaux

As a Fine Art wedding photographer based in Bordeaux, I love capturing the most precious moments of every wedding ceremony, whatever the couple’s sexual orientation. For me, every wedding is a celebration of love and commitment, and I am always happy to photograph same-sex weddings.

Over the years, I have had the privilege of photographing many gay couples on their wedding day, and each time I set out to create wedding photos that are romantic, moving and unforgettable. From the preparations to the newlyweds discovering each other with their rings, from the drinks reception to the speeches by family and witnesses, through to the reception venue and the guests’ congratulations, I am there to capture every detail of the day.

Gay marriage

A gay wedding is a celebration of love between two people, whatever their gender. As a wedding photographer, I care about the diversity of couples, and I believe everyone has the right to their civil wedding, surrounded by family and friends. Same-sex wedding ceremonies are often full of emotion and happiness, and I make sure I am there to capture those precious moments.

Couples can count on my professionalism and discretion to capture the highlights of their wedding. Working alongside their wedding planner, I make sure to create beautiful photos that reflect the essence of their love and their commitment to each other.

In short, as a gay wedding photographer in Bordeaux, I am proud to celebrate and photograph love in all its forms. Whether you are a same-sex or a heterosexual couple, I am here to guide you and create unforgettable memories of your wedding.

The two grooms in blue suits dancing down a pedestrian street in Bordeaux
The two grooms smiling outside a café window in central Bordeaux
The grooms embracing, reflected in a toy shop window in Bordeaux
The two grooms embracing before Bordeaux's classical façades and a passing tram
The grooms cheek to cheek in blue suits in the streets of Bordeaux
One groom leaping into the other's arms against a white sky in Bordeaux

David and Pierre, a Cosmopolitan Couple

David is of Spanish origin, speaks five languages fluently and works at the European Parliament in Brussels. Pierre is a Bordeaux native through and through and speaks three languages, which is essential in his line of work, as he works for a luxury leather goods brand.

David and Pierre met through a friend in Spain, and it was love at first sight! A real bond quickly grew between them, and they decided to give love and a future together a chance, despite the distance that separated them at the time: David was already living in Brussels and Pierre was living in Spain. It was Pierre who decided to join David in Brussels to build their life as a couple.

The two grooms-to-be laughing at the edge of the pool, in black and white
Long pool lined with pines and palms at Villa La Tosca
The two grooms-to-be nose to nose by the pool, in black and white

A Civil Ceremony at Bordeaux City Hall

It was at Bordeaux City Hall, on Friday 7 June 2019, that David and Pierre made their union official, surrounded by their family and close friends.

After the civil ceremony, the grooms and I went off to take a few couple photos in some of Bordeaux’s most iconic spots.

The next morning we were raring to go for another day of celebration and ceremony! Two days in a row made for a very intense weekend. That said, I got on wonderfully with David and Pierre, and they welcomed me as if I were one of their own.

A groom in a bathrobe having his make-up done while getting ready, in black and white
Portrait of a smiling groom in a bathrobe while getting ready, in black and white
A groom in a shirt seated by the window while getting ready at the villa
Portrait of a smiling groom in a light shirt getting ready at Villa La Tosca
The couple's friends relaxing around the villa pool before the ceremony

A Humanist Ceremony at Villa La Tosca

The next day, Saturday 8 June, I photographed their wedding day from 11 in the morning until 2 in the morning on Sunday. It did not feel that long at all: I already liked David and Pierre a great deal, and it was a real pleasure to be with them until the very end of the celebrations, alongside their family and friends, who were all wonderfully warm and friendly.

When I arrived at Villa La Tosca that morning, the atmosphere was already fantastic and very relaxed! The venue is a lovely place that invites you to unwind.

The guests were all at ease on that sunny morning, enjoying the pool and the private terrace of Villa La Tosca. With David and Pierre, we took a few photos in their bathroom, just for fun, before they got ready for the ceremony.

The rest of the day was full of emotion. You could feel an incredible energy between the grooms, made of respect and true love. It was beautiful, and very moving, to witness.

The humanist ceremony was led in three languages (French, English and Spanish) by Blanca, the celebrant the grooms had chosen, as their guests had come from all four corners of the world.

Portrait of a smiling groom in a royal blue suit and sky-blue tie
A groom in a royal blue suit sitting and smiling at Villa La Tosca
Portrait of a friend in a yellow dress by a white column of the villa
A friend in a yellow dress gazing out from the Villa La Tosca balustrade
A groom overcome with emotion behind the banister before the first look, in black and white
David and Pierre embracing and smiling during their first look at the villa
The two grooms kissing in the wood-panelled library of Villa La Tosca
The grooms' outdoor ceremony in the Villa La Tosca garden with guests seated
Guests applauding before the Villa La Tosca façade during the outdoor ceremony
The two grooms leaving the ceremony hand in hand under soap bubbles
The grooms laughing with their guests during the surprise drinks, in black and white
Guests wearing masks of the grooms' faces on the veranda for the surprise
A groom hugging a guest in a dog mask, in black and white
Playful group photo of the grooms and their friends on the villa lawn
Group photo of all the guests in front of Villa La Tosca on Arcachon Bay
The two grooms on a wooden footbridge in the villa's flowering garden
The grooms bursting into laughter in each other's arms in the garden
The two grooms on the veranda overlooking Arcachon Bay, cigar in hand
The grooms embracing on the terrace overlooking Arcachon Bay
The two grooms embracing above Arcachon Bay, in black and white
The grooms' hands and wedding rings on blue suits with buttonholes
David and Pierre embracing and smiling at their first look, portrait format

A wonderful photographer: professional, approachable, warm

Tristan was a key player in making our wedding a dream. He captured the beauty of every moment and gave us unexpected, magnificent memories that we will keep forever.

Even though we had only talked on Skype (several times), I felt as if I were meeting a friend when we joined him in front of the town hall. He followed us throughout the weekend as a friendly, willing presence, putting us at ease at all times and guiding us so that we could give the very best of ourselves. The best photographer I know, with an excellent luxury service and deliverables.

David & Pierre

Brussels, Belgium (translated from French)

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Living a Great Love Story

During the wedding dinner at Villa La Tosca, David gave a deeply felt speech in three languages about the meaning of love, as he experienced it, and it truly came from the heart. He himself, his family, his friends and of course Pierre were all very moved.

They are both sensitive and intelligent, and they love to laugh, travel, have fun and discover new things. They like to take care of themselves, they are always impeccably stylish, and they love to be pampered!

David and Pierre are completely at ease showing their love. They radiate Love with a capital L, and so much complicity and tenderness shines through them.

A thousand thanks to them for trusting me. And if you too would like to trust me with your wedding, same-sex or not, I would love to hear from you.

The two grooms face to face on an Arcachon Bay beach, in black and white
The two smiling grooms forehead to forehead on the shore of Arcachon Bay
A hand resting on a groom's blue-suited shoulder with a burgundy buttonhole
The grooms cheek to cheek by the water, detail of the blue suits
The two grooms sharing a tender moment by Arcachon Bay, in black and white
The two grooms kissing at sunset on an Arcachon Bay beach
Sunset over Arcachon Bay and the boats at anchor
The two grooms' first dance watched by guests at Villa La Tosca
Two guests dancing energetically during the wedding party in Lanton
A guest in a turquoise dress dancing with open arms on the dance floor in Lanton

David and Pierre’s wedding suppliers

  • Venue: Villa La Tosca
  • Florist: Oya Fleurs
  • Suits: Gamundi
  • Hair: Christel Bize
  • Barber: Maëlle Poveda
  • Celebrant: Blanca Beterly
  • Caterer: Tendances Tradition
  • DJ: Alegria

Thank you both, dear David and Pierre, for your sincere friendship and your generosity. This gay wedding between two men madly in love with each other will stay with me forever. This day at the sumptuous and romantic Villa La Tosca also won the hearts of other guests of my two lovebirds. So many beautiful stories still to come.

The two grooms embracing on the beach at dusk, Arcachon Bay

Frequently Asked Questions

Do you photograph gay and lesbian weddings?

Yes: I photograph same-sex weddings just as I photograph straight weddings, in Bordeaux, on Arcachon Bay and everywhere in France, from the preparations to the evening party.

Can you cover a wedding over two days?

Yes: for David and Pierre, I photographed the civil ceremony at Bordeaux City Hall and portraits in the city on the Friday, then the humanist ceremony and the party at Villa La Tosca on the Saturday, from 11 am to 2 am.

Do you speak English, for a wedding with guests from abroad?

Yes. At David and Pierre’s wedding, the humanist ceremony was in French, English and Spanish, as their guests came from all over the world.

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